the one rule
Alive or not alive?
That is the decision. Use いる for people and animals. Use ある for objects, places, events, and ideas.
Living things
いる
People, animals, bugs, pets—things that are alive.
There is a dog. / I have a dog.
Objects & non-living things
ある
Things, buildings, plans, time, events, and abstract stuff.
ペンがある。
There is a pen. / I have a pen.
Quick memory hook: pet? person? animal? → いる. Everything else → ある.
say the full matrix
Four forms. Two verbs. Eight useful sentences.
You do not need to consciously memorize a giant rule. Practice these four time / polarity slots until the pattern comes out automatically.
Living things
いる
Objects & non-living things
ある
ペンがある。
There is a pen.ペンがない。
There is no pen.ペンがあった。
There was a pen.ペンがなかった。
There was no pen.plain-verb pattern
する: the generic casual “do.”
する is the most useful first action verb because it means “do.” Once these four forms feel automatic, you can use the same time-and-negation map with other verbs.
Casual form
する
する。
I do.した。
I did.しない。
I do not do.しなかった。
I did not do.Put a noun before it
Make real sentences.
I do work. / I work.
I worked.
I do not work.
I did not work.
The point: first master these four slots for one verb. Then carry that pattern to verbs such as
where it is
Use に for the location of existence.
With いる and ある, the place uses に. The thing that exists normally uses が.
There is a cat in the room.
There is a phone on the desk.
Why not で? で marks where an action happens. に marks where something exists. A cat is not “doing” existence—it is simply there.
what this really means
“There is” and “I have” are the same basic pattern.
Japanese often does not need a separate verb for possession. Context handles it.
I have an older brother. Literally: an older brother exists.
I do not have time. Literally: time does not exist.
I had plans. Literally: plans existed.
the boss fight core
The patterns that keep showing up.
These are the high-payoff patterns from your boss fights and journaling. Each one is a recognition tool: see the shape, then read what it is doing in the sentence.
~てから
Do A, then B.
コーヒーを
Make coffee, then make a sandwich.
~たら
When / once A happens…
When I finish, I will sleep.
When I get home, I will play a game.
~た後 で / その後
After… / after that.
I slept after watching a movie.
その
After that, I studied Japanese.
~ている / ~てる
Ongoing action or current state. ~てる is the casual contraction.
I am playing a game now.
I am studying.
~てくる
Go / come do something and return; often “I’ll be right back.”
コンビニ
I am going to the convenience store and will be back.
I am going to walk the dog and will be back.
~たい
Want to do.
I want to go to Japan.
アニメを
I want to watch anime.
~か分 からない / ~か知 ってる
Embedded questions: a whole question becomes the thing you know or do not know.
I do not know where the cat is.
Do you know where he is?
から / で
から gives a reason. で can mark a cause or circumstance.
Because I am tired, I will sleep.
ストレスで
I did not work because of stress.
は vs が
は sets a topic or contrast. が introduces or identifies the thing.
As for the dog, it was there.
There was a dog.
Verb + noun
Plain verb forms can sit directly before a noun and describe it.
A place I want to go / food I want to eat / a movie I want to see.
~の方 が
“A is more … than B” / preference comparison.
I like dogs more.
Verb stem + 方
How to do something.
How to eat / how to use / how to read.
Useful casual chunks
High-frequency phrases worth recognizing as whole units.
そう
I think so. / I am full. / I wonder what I will eat.
fast self-check
Before you speak, ask one tiny question.
- Is the thing alive? Yes → いる. No → ある.
- When? Now: いる / ある. Before: いた / あった.
- Does it exist? Yes: normal form. No: いない / ない.